
Controversial Reflections

November 2016
by Diesel Heart
As you may have realized from the last article, this small series of food for thought highlights my opinion on facilitating less restriction on communication. The last one brought awareness to the understanding that I do not believe words should be taken offensively when not used harmfully. That's only a small part of it, though. Have you ever felt dimwitted because you didn't know the right word to use? Have you ever hesitated speaking out of fear of ridicule based on the chance that you'll come off as less intelligent? I know I have and at some point in my life, I began to think about that until I came to an opinion. Before I disclose the opinion, I want to bring up some preliminary aspects of what made it.

For example, I briefly touched upon the words segregation and labels. Both of these have a broad perspective of context, don't they?
When you look at the English language, you can deduce quite a lot and some of it is subject that's often used in humor. Just think about how many words we have that basically mean the same thing or sound the same with different meanings. It's one of the facets that make it one of the hardest languages to learn and truth be told, many of us don't know the convoluted rules of grammar perfectly. Language evolves and while our brains are pattern-making machines, I honestly cannot say that any of us fully enjoy restriction when it comes to expressing ourselves. Why would we put them in expressing ourselves through speech and communication?
Over the centuries of speech, we've had cultures spawn different languages and all of them use sounds and patterns. The further spread out mankind goes, the more diverse language became. There are plenty of words, however, that have stayed consistent and one of them is 'God.' Not every language says this word the same, though. In Latin, it is called Deus. In Japanese, it is called Kami. There are even some cultures that have different ways to express the idea of a god, such as Deva from the Sanskrit language. That alone teaches us through observation that the word is diverse in and of itself.
Another thing we can observe through the fact we've evolved language is that our words have multiplied significantly as well as our understanding. If I asked you what magic was, you'd likely provide me an answer similar to 'a phenomenon unexplained by science.' That's my paraphrased definition at least. Now, for those of you that never went looking, we've come to understand in modern times that what used to be thought of as magic is now being applied in technology. Just imagine for a moment if you went back in time to days of the Ice Age and you stumbled upon a clan of cavemen. If you pulled a lighter and created fire at the flick of a thumb, do you believe that they'd understand what happened?
They could call you a magician. They may even call you - wait for it - a god. To them, you are someone that has an unnatural ability and manipulates the energy of life at their fingertips. They don't have the knowledge or the speech articulation to cohesively describe things the way we do. They're limited in what words they could use. To all of them, whatever label they give to what just happened will be universally understood after it spreads. It will remain that way until context or something else comes along to change the word. Magic and science can easily be seen as interchangeable in that respect in my opinion.
Now, you may be asking yourself what this has to do with lessening restriction in communication. You may believe that the information above is nothing more than my rudimentary perspective on history. I just hope you understand that I'm not trying to convince you that I'm right or wrong; this is nothing more than an offered thought to ponder.
Have you ever felt like someone is being pretentious when they correct a use of word? For example, I recall a conversation I had in the past where I said a word with numerous synonyms that could be applied to the sentence. Everyone understood what I meant but there was one in the group that felt it necessary to point out that I should've used one of those synonyms instead. Keep in mind, this was a casual conversation. I honestly felt like he was trying to challenge me or validate himself for whatever reason. Perhaps it was nothing more than my pride but the others shared my opinion. Can you recall an instance in your life where you were being corrected on vocabulary based on technical difference?
For example, let's pick a random word for this article. 'Rudimentary' will be our example here. It has two definitions: involved or limited to basic principles; of or relating to an immature, undeveloped or basic form. The definition provide you with different words that mean the same exact thing in the most 'rudimentary' ways. Take the sentence I used it in. 'You may believe that the information above is nothing more than my rudimentary perspective on history.' I could easily say 'You may believe that the information above is nothing more than my uneducated perspective on history' and draw the same conclusion. I don't feel there is any higher tier of enlightenment or understanding between those words.
Essentially, the meaning of this article is addressing how we allow words to instigate conflict, often over the most 'rudimentary' reasons. I'd like to continue challenging you to think about this subject. It's something I've become quite passionate about and if you're looking for some motivation on why, understand this: when I humbled myself with this controversial reflections, I've been able to shrug off verbal attacks and understand how to mediate a conflict between two other people. It's helped me see the world, to see how we interact, in a different perspective and that, in my opinion, benefits everyone. It advocates peaceful communication and reduces the issues we may have with society today.
Sincerely,
Diesel Heart

October 2016
by Diesel Heart
A single distinct meaningful element of speech or writing, used with others (or sometimes alone) to form a sentence and typically shown with a space on either side when written or printed; this sentence is the definition of a noun we all call a 'word'. It's something so diverse and ingrained into nearly every aspect of our life that it's often not even thought about beyond vocabulary. So let's take a moment to appreciate what it does for us, especially on Guilty Pleasures considering that text on a screen is the medium of interaction.
As a human being, we all have an innate disposition to communicate with and understand the world around us. Every single one of us was born with curiosity about color, shape, animal, taste, texture and more. After all, how many of us remember being told not to put a fork into an electrical outlet; wanting to put your hands on anything they could grab just to see what it is? Before we develop the talent for articulating coherent speech with the tongue, we use many other ways to facilitate what we call language in order to express that curiosity. The simplest of gestures are universally understood. Everyone knows what pointing, smiling, nodding and frowning means.

Or do we
Did you know that in Thailand, the thumbs up gesture can be seen offensive, some saying incredibly so? Did you know the 'Peace sign' gesture is the equivalent of flipping someone off in Australia? That crossing your fingers, in Vietnam is calling someone a cunt because they think it looks like the female genitalia? It shouldn't be surprising to discover that a difference in culture has different interpretations for something we view as universally acceptable though. The English language has its own form of difficulty when it comes to taboo phrases and words too. This list grows by the day while some that were once taboo are considered acceptable now. However, the discussion about how language consistently evolves with society is not what this is about.
As a white male in America in current society, there's a varying degree of pressure proliferating the media and current affairs described in two words: political correctness. There are many things that, if said by me, are likely to instigate some argument or topic about civil rights, cultural appropriation or equivalent. This doesn't necessarily bother me but I know many others have developed a social stigma towards communication with a certain type of people because of it. This type of behavior is subjective to other countries, historical eras and more too. Thus, we reach the real point of this article.
Words, or rather, why words are the foundation of interrelation restriction.
Faggot. Retard. How many of you just took offense to one of those words? How many of you are going to stop reading now? Are any of you going to disown me, dissociate, report me or leave Guilty Pleasures over it? Allow me to say now that there was no malicious intent behind any of them. Personally, avoidance of an issue or the act of disregarding it to have it removed or otherwise is never going to fix the stigma about it. It's a word. An intangible thought that can be used in many contexts. Right now, it's for a reflection purpose because I want you all to consider the following.
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What if - and bear with me here - you were ignorant to the meaning of that word or the negative connotations surrounding it? Think about the offensive gestures in other countries. Did you go to Australia knowing about the Peace sign being the equivalent of the middle finger? Did you 'flip someone off' during a visit and end up confused at how they were upset at you? Is it your fault that you were ignorant to the facts? Are you truly expected to be all-knowing?
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To me, racism and segregation are issues of influence. I refuse to believe that any of us were born with a hatred towards a person with a certain color of skin, sexual preference or a deficit in mental aptitude. That is taught. It is taught through observation. It is taught through interaction. It is taught through assimilation of knowledge produced by the opinions and judgment of others via news broadcast, literature or conversation.
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I was raised in a Christian oriented white neighborhood where a Confederate flag waved in the wind proudly. I was raised with a predisposition to view difference in scrutiny handed down through generations of inability to view the picture through an unclear frame. When I began to date women of different ethnicity, I received repercussions from certain members in my family. When I began to act beyond the norms of familial tradition, I was kept at arm's length. I went out and integrated with 'thugs', 'hooligans', 'whores' and 'black folk'. Yet to me, there were nothing but people I interacted with for various reasons.
Four words. Four labels. Four negatives. Four segregated terms. Do you think that my family was right to teach me to look at 'black folk' as something to be avoided and treated like they were inferior? Do you think my religious upbringing was right to advocate a view of 'unhealthy' and 'taint' towards homosexuality? Do you want me to believe that I am superior to someone born into a condition of mental deficit because 'I'm better than them'? If so, well; we can agree to disagree. If not, then I want you to start thinking.
If a word is not being used as a weapon, why is it offensive to you? How will we ever remove this wall of communication between people as long as we continue to act and view it that way? You can't change people. You can only change you and hope that the next generation looks at you to see the world through your perspective. A child learns what he observes.
If you found this article to be enlightening, entertaining or otherwise, be sure to contact the Couriers with your thoughts and opinions. If this becomes a regular articled published in subsequent issues, I will move onto my thoughts about another topic that falls similar to this.
Sincerely,
Diesel Heart